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Bad Boys (1983)
IMDB rating: 7.00
Plot: Chicago crime kid Mick O’Brien has been sent to a juvenile prison for vehicular manslaughter. Most unfortunately, the person he kills is the kid brother of his nemesis Paco Moreno, who vows revenge by raping Mick’s girlfriend. Paco is caught and sent to the same prison where he re-works his revenge plan, and Mick has no choice but to defend himself.
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Directors: Rosenthal Rick
Actors: Penn Sean,Santoni Reni,Moody Jim,Gurry Eric,Morales Esai,Brown Clancy,Rush Robert Lee,Zenda John,Ruck Alan,Mockus Jr. Tony,Barefield Erik,Fortunato Dean,Mah Lawrence,Noa Jorge,Crime,Drama,Thriller,
Please help with my mom!?
Third time I asked this question but yet, I have no answers. So if you see this around, you don’t need to answer twice.
Well maybe not ‘disowned’ me, but pretty close.
See yesterday at school, I got into a fight.. just that morning before I went to school my mom was talking about how stupid fighting is.
That fight was my second one, so of course I got suspended for 10 days.
The fight went like, we we’re walking up the stairs, and he called me a gothic *****, so I shoved him, and he shoved me back, I was like "Ohh f*** nah." and I slapped him. He kept pulling my hair, he didn’t slap/punch he just grabbed my hair, I actually fell on the floor for like 2 seconds because he whipped my hair around. So I punched him in the face, and he tried to grab my hair, but my friend who’s a boy grabbed him the I slapped/scratched him.
So apparently, his face started bleeding. My hair ripped out my earring and my cartilage starting bleed, for hours.
So I took the bus home, when my mom arrived she yelled and screamed and called me every-name in the book. So I locked myself in my room, 2 hours later I come out to find shes at the mall. I do have a cold but I still went to school. It got worse, and I feel so sore I cant move and I didn’t eat all day so I called her an asked if she could bring some food back, she laughed and hung up the phone.
Earlier this morning I was talking to my brother when I woke up, she came into my room and yelled at me for it, for saying "Hey, Eric."
She hates when I talk to her, which I avoided and shes just still pissed at me, she didn’t like me much before the fight either.
Now she says shes gonna send me to a foster home, which is the third time shes said it over the past 5 years. I think shes really considering it now.
I don’t want to go into foster care, and I don’t want my mom to hate me.
Right now I am in tears just thinking about it.
I know this is long, but can you please help me in ANY way!
By the way, I’m only 13.
Oh my God. Okay, sweetie sit down and talk to your mom. Have a real heart to heart chat with her. And explain to her how the fight went. Tell her that you are sorry if you are causing her to stress, but you really need her in your life. And as for you sweetheart you can’t fight someone just because they called you a name. You have to learn how to ignore people. Yes i know, you dont want to seem like a ‘punk’ or that you are scared, but sometimes its really not worth it. Don’t worry, your mother loves you, and she is not going to put you in foster care. But the next time someone calls you a name, just ignore it. I’m telling you, when someone is bothering you and they see that you are just ignoring them, after a while they leave you alone, because they see it doesn’t bother you. I know its hard, but don’t fight and its really not worth it. In the meantime talk to your mother. And be respectful. Everything will work out fine.
God Bless
Ashley D | Feb 04, 2010
You have alot of repairing to do. First of all you mentioned this isn’t your first fight so it sounds like you might have some anger stored inside….not saying that you do but, parents have a problem with their children getting into trouble because it reflex’s on them. Learn to control the anger when someone calls you a name and remember that your appearance and behavior will always go back on the parents because they are the ones raising you and people say things like she/he acts like that because their parents allow it or don’t care. 13 is a hard age, alot of changes going on. Communication is the best thing here. Talk to your mom when the two of you can sit and talk without arguing. She is angry because of your behavior so work on that and then the other things. Figure out what it is that she doesn’t agree with and work on that. It is up to you.
cutiepie | Feb 04, 2010
Mr. Schrute, that is a LOT of fallout over some kid calling you a name. You don’t want to give namecallers that much power over your life!! Write a note to your mom apologizing and asking her to help you come up with realistic ideas of what you might have done when verbally challenged. Because it will happen again. Good luck.
and_y_knot | Feb 04, 2010
You’re so right for the fact that fighting is very stupid. I’m saying this because I’ve gotten into MANY physical fights when I was in school. I didn’t waste a second to turn around and do everything I could to knock out a preppy wench’s tooth, or break a nose or two. I didn’t pull hair or use my nails to scratch…I would pin a girl down on the floor and either bash her head against it, or just lay out blow after blow. Did they deserve it? At the time I thought they did, but now that I think about it, I feel that I’ve caused emotional scars on them. Plus I’m older, I have a family, and they aren’t worth going to jail over. If I were to face them again I’d apologize to them whereas, I laughed back then because I saw them sitting there in pain. Needless to say I was a big-time problem teen. However I’ve never been to juvie, I never got into trouble with the law, but my parents kept threatening to send me to a foster home. Threat after threat I knew they weren’t going to do it. I never layed a hand on my parents or my sisters, but they were afraid of me.
Yes fighting is very stupid, what does it really solve? And what does having unresolved feeling of hate solve? Back then I really couldn’t control my temper, and I just had this attitude like, "You better not mess with me, or you’ll regret it". Like you, I was ‘different’, or viewed as different because of how I expressed myself. I would slapped in the back of the head, and then again until I just lost every bit of control and just wailed on that person.
My mom in particular had the same attitude as your mom…she just wouldn’t let things go because she was disappointed in me. She would continuously bring me down, try to start a fight with me and say something along the lines like, ‘Go ahead and try to lay a hand on me’, or just give me the cold shoulder. I would try to talk to her, but it would just turn onto a screaming match. I was tempted to do what I did to those girls in school, but never in a million years would I ever touch my mom because I knew she would kick my butt. When I look at your situation between you and your mom, I see issues that are identical to what I went through.
It’s not that your mom hates you honey, it’s just that she’s up in arms as to what to do. It’s seems like you have some issues going on in your life. She’s probably disappointed as to why you couldn’t of just walked away…which is why I’m saying this now you should’ve just walked away and told a teacher that this other boy was harrassing you. I realize now that I should’ve done the same thing when I got into a situation like that. Hopefully this fight has taught you a lesson because if you go around trying to act like a tough guy nobody is ever going to respect or trust you, especially your mom.
Maybe you should be the bigger person by not acting like a tough guy so much and apologize to your mother first, then apologize to this other boy and his parents. It could help if you would do some extra chores around the house without your mom asking you to. And instead of shutting your mom out when she tries to talk to you, listen to what she has to say instead of wanting to fight. I think you should give this situation time to calm down. She says what she says to put the fear of God into you…to make sure that you’ve learned your lesson and not do anything like that again. I think your mom wants you to open up to her, and she wants you to tell her what happened. Most of the time parents are going to blame their kids for what happened, even if the child didn’t instigate the problem. Maybe taking a good look at yourself and your attitude will give you a clue as to what you should do to change your behavior.
I want to say that I do feel your pain, but only YOU can change your behavior and the way you see yourself. It’s not always easy, but when push comes to shove you have to teach yourself to just walk away and avoid a confrontation. I’m only saying this now because I wish I could’ve done the same thing. Give this time to blow over…when you’re ready open up to your mom. She could in turn open up to you. I hope this helps, and I wish you the best.
Allison | Feb 04, 2010
Talk to her and try to make it up. Help around the house ask her for some help or advice. Tell her you don’t want to go to foster home.
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